Episode 143: Roy Shaw part 3
How do we unlock the true potential of authentic masculinity? In part 3 of our conversation with Roy Shaw, we explore the themes of masculinity, the nature of boys, and the importance of community and support in personal growth. He draws parallels between Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and spiritual life, emphasizing the need for men to be comfortable in uncomfortable situations and to find virtue between extremes. The conversation also touches on the significance of hierarchy in society and the role of sacraments in spiritual development. In this conversation, we explore the intersection of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) and spiritual combat, emphasizing the importance of meekness, mental resilience, and the power of choice. He discusses how understanding one's enemy, particularly in relationships and spiritual warfare, is crucial for overcoming challenges. The dialogue highlights the significance of prayer and unity in combating fear and confusion, advocating for empowerment through BJJ as a means to build confidence and community. We encourage listeners to seek training in Jiu-Jitsu as a way to develop both physical and mental strength, ultimately fostering a deeper connection with faith and the teachings of the saints.
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Takeaways:
- **Submission as Leadership**: True submission, as seen in Ephesians 5, involves men dying to themselves to serve their families and communities with love and leadership. This reflects Christ’s love for the Church.
- **The Power of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu**: BJJ teaches discipline, humility, and perseverance—critical virtues for spiritual warfare. "Learning to tap" mirrors the need for surrender to God's will.
- **Breaking Generational Sin**: Addressing intergenerational sin and spiritual strongholds is vital for protecting our families from hidden spiritual battles.
- **Authentic Masculinity**: Embracing strength tempered by meekness leads to righteous leadership and inspires those around us to follow Christ.
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Food for Thought:
- *"A man on fire for God will stand at the gate, ensuring Satan has no entry into his home."*
- *"Submission isn’t about losing power; it’s about unleashing the strength God has given you to serve."*
- *"Marriage isn’t 50/50—it’s 100/100. True love is about out-giving each other."*
- *"BJJ isn’t just a martial art—it’s a theological exercise in humility and perseverance."*
- *"You will know the character of a man by the countenance of his wife."*
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Take These Actions Today!
1. Build Your Foundation - Embrace a spiritual practice that strengthens your connection to God daily. Confession and prayer are critical tools in this fight.
2. Invest in Your Relationships - Whether in marriage or friendships, focus on giving 100% to out-serve and uplift others.
3. Develop Discipline - Explore practices like martial arts or fitness that train both the body and spirit to endure challenges with grace.
4. Guard Your Gate - Actively pray for protection over your family and community, breaking any known generational strongholds through intercessory prayer.
Check out Roy Shaw's Vanguard Brazilian Jiu Jitsu website and Youtube Channels!
https://www.vanguardbjj.com/
https://www.youtube.com/@UCEWiveZXJQ1niss8YJbK8Eg
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Manly Catholic Podcast
00:21 The Nature of Boys and Masculinity
03:05 Hierarchy and Roles in Society
04:29 Lessons from Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
06:16 Internal Struggles and Obedience
07:58 Managing Stress and Reactions
10:41 The Fight or Flight Response
13:08 Finding Virtue Between Extremes
14:44 The Importance of Community and Support
19:25 Training and Growth Through Experience
22:40 The Connection Between Physical and Spiritual Training
27:45 Being Comfortable in Uncomfortable Situations
30:10 The Role of Sacraments in Spiritual Life
32:55 Becoming an Apex Predator in Life
36:12 The Power of Choice and Meekness
39:11 Mental Resilience and Overcoming Limits
43:10 Spiritual Combat and Knowing Your Enemy
45:13 Identifying the Enemy in Relationships
49:32 The Importance of Prayer in Unity
51:48 Fear as the Root of Conflict
54:45 The Role of Peace in Spiritual Warfare
57:04 Empowerment Through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
01:01:22 Training for Real-World Threats
01:05:33 Building Community and Trust
01:08:43 Learning from the Saints
01:12:20 Encouragement to Seek Jiu-Jitsu Training
